Saturday, January 9, 2010

Living It Up in the Lou

These pics were all taken on my phone, which is why they're a bit fuzzy. Our camera issues persist.

Here it is... the inaugural bath of the brothers. Howie had a blast, but as you can see, Justice had a bit more to worry about.




Already 4 months today! It's gone so fast!! Justice is still sporting his awesome mohawk, which he has had all along and we hope continues well into childhood.



This is Justice's bedtime apparel... he looks a bit like a Michelin baby every night with all those clothes on to ward off the cold.


The other morning we awoke to find that Howie had climbed into the crib with Justice and turned the mobile on for Justice's entertainment. He's never been much of a climber, but I guess that's all changing!! We've since had to lower the crib mattress so Howie can't get back in, and now Justice has to use a telescope to look at his mobile.


Howie is going through a very funny time... I often hear him singing songs kind of under his breath and whispering to himself. Today in the car he was singing, and it took me a while to catch what the song was... finally I heard, "... but I'm in the Lord's arsmy." He had heard that song from Grandma some time ago and that was the first time I'd ever heard him sing it. HA! Remember that old Sunday School song?

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Arrogant and Foolish: The Colts Blow Their Shot at History




(A special op-ed by Josh Desch, who never blogs anymore, so it must be a big deal).

I remember watching the New England Patriots in 2007 with disgust. As the Colts archrival, I already loathed them with all my being. Nonetheless, that loathing went to new level in 2007. First came Spygate, and the realization that the Dark Side had been cheating all along. Then came the way they played that year. They kept playing at 100% every quarter. They ran up the score. The Patriots became the first team in the modern 16 game schedule to have a perfect regular season, and if it wasn't for what is perhaps the greatest catch in football history, the Patriots would have won the Superbowl and become the first 19-0 team in the history of the NFL.


I'm here to admit that there was something I do admire about that 2007 Patriots team. I have always viewed Bill Belichick as an Evil Genius, but a football genius nonetheless. Bill realized back in 2007 what everybody – except Colts GM Bill Polian and Coach Jim Caldwell – and realize today: that in sports, ESPECIALLY in the NFL, momentum is everything. The Patriots understood that, and so they kept winning. They even played the most entertaining week 17 NFL game that has ever been played, against the eventual Superbowl Champion Giants. If you remember, that game was supposed to be on NFL network, but because of the Patriots historic run, it was put on national TV. Whether you loved or hated (like me and Betsy . . . did I mention Betsy?) the Patriots, you realized something monumental was happening. Earlier in the season when the Pats almost lost to the Ravens, I almost had an aneurysm when Rex Ryan called a timeout from the sidelines a milisecond before the Ravens stopped the Patriots on fourth down, which would have won the game.


My point is, aside from running up the score is a few games, the Pats played the game like it is meant to be played. They never lost their momentum, and with all the pressure in the world on their shoulders – and none on those of the lowly Giants – they almost pulled it off.


Now we come to my beloved Colts. First, let me say that I think that Peyton Manning is the greatest quarterback in NFL history. Let me also say, and it actually hurts me to write this, that if he had Bill Bilichick as his coach I believe he would have already won 4 Superbowls instead of 1. Anyway, Peyton is not only the most gifted athlete to ever play quarterback, he is also the smartest. They guy just doesn't get hurt. He has never missed a start in the NFL. The chances of him getting hurt are very small, as he has played over a decade in this league and Never Missed a Start! Yet the Colts showed their true colors this past Sunday. Even after the gave all of us fans such hope as we watched them comeback against the Jaguars the previous week despite resting some of their starters.


I contend that the Colts decision was both arrogant and foolish. I still wan them to win the Superbowl with all my heart. In fact, if they win the Superbowl, that won't change my opinion at all, because then I (and many others) will simply think: “See, they could have been the only 19-0 team in NFL history!!” And can I get an amen that the 1972 Dolphins are most annoying group of former pro athletes alive today. My mother's Bunco group could have given them a run for their money in 1972. The game has changed a ton since then. Anyway, Colts going 19-0 would have been like Luke Skywalker going undefeated: Everyone would have loved it. The Pats going 19-0 would have been like Darth Vader going undefeated: You hated him, but you had to respect him.


First, its arrogant. It completely disrespects the game of football. It also send the message, “We're too good for history. We're better than that.” Indianapolis Star sports writer Bob Kravitz wrote:


“They tossed perfection away like a Christmas leftover. They treated it with a casual shrug of the shoulders, disdain even, as if they were beyond such a trivial pursuit. Standing on the precipice of NFL history, the Indianapolis Colts' brain trust arrogantly, foolishly, treated Sunday's second half like a preseason game.” CNNSI writer Don Banks wrote, “I hated the way the Colts played it against New York, and there's something inherently wrong about not trying your best to win the game in that situation, with an undefeated season on the line.” Peter King, another CNNSI writer, said, “But whether players voice their feelings or not, guys like Manning and Reggie Wayne want to leave their footprints in the game forever. And you'll never be able to convince me they don't care about 16-0.” Even Jim Caldwell's mother said, “I didn't raise my boy to lay down like like a bed sheet that just got ironed!” Okay, she didn't really say that. But I bet she thought it.


Second, its foolish. It flies in the face of modern sports history, especially the Colts own history. In 2005 and 2007 the Colts did this exact same thing, and lost their first playoff game. The one year the Colts did win the Superbowl, in 2006, they were a Wild Card team and had to win 4 straight playoff games. In other words, they got hot at the right time: like the the 2005 Superbowl Champion Steelers, who were also a Wild Card. Like the 2007 Giants, who were a Wild Card. The 2008 Cardinals were 9-7 and yet made it to the Superbowl. I'm not saying I don't want the Colts to get the buy in the first round, but in today's NFL, you've got to realize the importance of momentum. In my opinion, the gap between the best teams and the really good teams has narrowed to the point that a team can't think that home-field advantage amounts to much anymore.


If I was the Colts coach last week. I would have left Peyton in the entire game. If he gets hurt, then so be it. He might also get hurt walking his dog around the neighborhood. Let me repeat. He has never missed a start. You've got to be willing to take some chances in football, as in life. Then I would go to Buffalo this week and let Peyton throw at least 3 touchdown passes before I pulled him. As one of my favorite writes, Joe Posnanski, said about the Colts loss, “When I saw Peyton Manning stewing on the sideline while the Colts' undefeated season was flushed away, it FELT wrong. Because, I guess, at the end of the day, if you're not trying to be perfect... what are you trying to be?” Well, even though Luke Skywalker is not going to go undefeated, I and every other self respecting Colts fan in the universe is not going to satisfied if the Colts don't win the Superbowl. And if they lose in the playoffs, even in the Superbowl, I think we can legitimately ask, “what if they had played hard the whole season, and kept their momentum? Then what would have happened?”


Two must read articles on this are Bob Kravitz, “By Pulling Manning, Colts Forsake Chance at Perfection” and Joe Posnanski, “Colts Decision to Rest Starters May Cost them More than Perfection.”

Bedtime

Often it seems like bedtime is the hardest time of the day. By then Josh and I are completely out of gas, Howie is bouncing off the walls, Justice is cranky, and we move at a snails pace as we get the boys ready for bed. We got some pics tonight of the process underway on my new phone... who knew you could email yourself pics on your phone?? OK, maybe everyone else knew that, but it was news to me.




Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Closing In On 2010

Wow, it's hard to believe that 2009 is already coming to a close!! It's been a wonderful, busy, frustrating, exhausting, joyous, exciting, trying, and stretching year. The last several weeks have been very full, but now that Josh is on his semester break we want to catch up our blog just a bit!! These are family pics that were taken sometime in November by our super talented friend Caylee, who also photographed Justice's birth in September. Howie had just fallen off of a ledge outside our apartment onto a concrete step a few days before the photos were taken, so his battle wounds are forever immortalized. The little ones change so fast- I know we'll cherish these pics.

































Sunday, November 22, 2009

One More Babe...

Just to piggyback on my last post, here's a funny babe story. Josh preached this morning at a CRC church to fill in for their pastor, and the boys and I went too. After the service I picked Howie up in the nursery and we went to the sanctuary to find Josh, who was talking to people from the congregation. Howie was happy to see him and grabbed Josh by the hand... after being patient with his chatting for a few minutes, Howie dragged him down the aisle of the sanctuary saying, " Babe! Babe! Babe!" I don't know if anyone else understood him, but I found it hilarious.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Babe

Howie has taken to calling Josh and me both "Babe" because that's what we always call each other (although it sometimes doesn't sound very affectionate... for example, "what the heck were you thinking, BABE??") Anyway, here's a quote uttered by Howie tonight during a dance party after dinner, in response to seeing me come onto the dance floor (our brown living room rug) and no doubt desiring me to spin him around:

Howie: Pick up me, Babe.

He's also taken to calling Josh "Josh" or "DaddyBabe." It's pretty dang funny!!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Back Again

Here are some pics from the past several weeks!! Our camera finally started kind of working... I'm convinced that these techie people make these things in such a way that you have to replace them fairly quickly or they're horribly outdated and possibly inoperable. We're fighting for this camera's life, and seeing as it's only slightly older than Howie, it's surprising that we're having to do so. But anyway, I managed to squeeze these out today and hopefully more are on their way! These are in no particular order.


Doesn't Justice look a bit like Howie did so long ago?
Bojangle makes her blog return as Howie feeds her a bottle




Inaugural double stroller ride- Howie's actually riding with his brother and not bags or groceries


Howie giving cousin Pax some love, who was here for Justice's birth